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Until you allow it to happen, nothing will happen

Until you allow it nothing will happen

And at one moment, just in a blink of eyes, things change. The far away dreams will be the unbelievable reality and the word impossible will surprisingly be possible.
-Do you believe that?
No
-why?
Because miracles can happen anywhere but not here near me.
-You seem to be a pessimist!
No, I'm just reasonable!
-You are healthy and can do much more than what you see!
No, I have a lot of health problems and I don't have motivation. I always feel I'm doomed and cannot do anything right.
A common dialog between me or you or anyone with oneself. But we always forget something really important. Life and fate may be the least expected; an exam you weren't ready for and you just got an A without enough preparations, being a loser in a situation you are already deep involved and suddenly you make some strange or idiot-like action that turns the things into your favor, or even finding some hidden money in your pocket that you have totally forgotten for a long time to just come out and surprise you at just the right time!
Such things may happen to you, right? They happen and many other things also may arise. It's just we don't realize the existence of the filled part of the water glass as stress and depression often force our minds into looking only at the empty part. We only have two eyes, we can't see the future as we can't see what's behind us.
Do you believe in love? Yes? No? Some people do while others don't. However, this doesn't mean that real love doesn't exist, right? Do you know how it feels to be laying down resting on a boat on an island surrounded with only green and blue colors with all types of delicious food served, all along with people you love and you are all laughing happily? Is your answer is no?
No, let me tell you, there are many people who know this feeling! So, you can't say that this only exists in movies or books and doesn't exist in real life just because you haven't experienced this yet! The ones who experienced that may have worked hard to achieve it or may have had other hardships in other forms and fighting battles no one knows about. Their lives are not perfect, they just had a good part or a successful achievement.
What I mean to say is that the place you are in right now, the feelings that control you right now, the circumstances that you are immersed in right now and the world that you are watching with your eyes right now, all these are not immortal. wake up!
We are living in a changeable world. we change, the air changes and the Earth itself changes. We all move, it's just that we choose to believe in the right beliefs and follow them with strong will and enough determination to defeat that fear of the cannot and the impossible. This doesn't mean that we are aware of all the world or even our own world. So, my friend, let's choose to believe in love, in positivity, in enthusiasm, in dreams and in our reasons of existing on this Earth. And let me remind you and remind myself that nothing will happen until you allow it to happen and the seed won't grow until you water it and work hard taking care of it. Life is what we grow within us and around us.

Do You Have Such Thoughts Too?

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Sometimes, we wish we could be this one or that one while, at the same time, some other one is having the same wishes about my life. We look forward to being rich, fulfilling our dreams and being happy with our beloved ones. However, somewhere out there, there are people who dream of the sun to just rise and looking forward to eating before sleeping, while others aim to a peaceful night for their families with no shots or blood. Our priorities look very precious and important to us all, but it varies actually!

Happiness and gratefulness thoughts

 

It is not bad to aim for the stars, but the awful thing is denying the blessing we have on Earth and ignoring the luxury we enjoy of being alive without ventilators and having the chance to eat and drink with no fear or insecurities as much as possible. We have to be thankful for what we have and first for who we are.

Being grateful is part of the process. We thank God for His blesses and enjoy having them. Enjoy breathing fresh air and walking and running without limits. Only then, much more abundance will be waiting for us! Looking at myself in the inner mirror of mine, with all my defects whatever they are and my shortcomings, I look gorgeous because I know I am blessed and I feel thankful for everything! People who have hardships, which go in their way, know that much, that happiness won't last, neither nor sadness. So, why torture yourself? Just enjoy the small thrilling thoughts whispering in your head that you are the best and gain your own confidence. Then, so what? What cannot I do? Nothing won't dare to stand in my way. It's not overflowing confidence but much more of faith in God and in life.

I have such thoughts from time to time and when I catch up on them I try to stick to my positivity as much as I can. I tend to be very confident walking through my journey even if it is all dull and not promising. Yet with time, I see the progress myself. Don't you have such thoughts too!

What Is Happiness?

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Being happy is such a great feeling. We all live our lives craving for its existence and trying our best for it to be continuous in every event of life. It's crowded and noisy out there that we mistake the moment of pleasure as normal life is. We live such times but we tend to hide the feeling of content and satisfaction as they may vanish soon, not knowing that finding happiness within them is the joy of life. It is not a must that happiness knocks the door and say I am here, we ought to exert efforts in recognizing its existence or uncover its presence. So, what is happiness? Instead of agonizing over this question, why don't we try understanding this term closely?

“It is not how much we have, but how much we enjoy, that makes happiness.”
– Charles Spurgeon

Happiness maybe achieving dreams, building a successful career, having strong relationships and getting a decent income. However, how we do feel and react to these achievements is what determine if we are really happy or now. It is not a must that all people feel happy feelings from the same resources. You cannot say that a rich person is a happy one or a successful businessman doesn't need anything in life anymore. Everyone gets motivated by different causes. What you are striving to make it happen is mostly the most effective reason to make you feel it.

“Family, friends, a good laugh and beautiful weather are the best cures.”
– Bar Refaeli

 

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Happiness is the gladness in trying to be happy. It's finding every good thing in unfortunate events. It's working on every detail of life to make it fit our hearts and bring along our well-being.

“Folks are usually about as happy as they make their minds up to be.”
– Abraham Lincoln

It's also about being excited to go through a new level of life whether it's work or personal related. The random affection we grope while starting a new friendship or stepping into a new workplace while expecting amazing results without reading much into any other circumstances. The thrilling emotions we develop when something impossible turns into a reality after a big effort. The priceless satisfaction we seek in the eyes of someone we helped even if we don't know. Somethings maybe planned and so many others are definitely not so that if we really pursue happiness and look for every reason to get us one step closer to it we will attract all the reasons to be happy.

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“If you want happiness for an hour, take a nap. If you want happiness for a day, go fishing. If you want happiness for a year, inherit a fortune. If you want happiness for a lifetime, help someone else.”
– Chinese proverb

If you really look for happiness, there are so many routes and roads that lead to it. All you have to do is to be determined to be a happy person.

Six Quotes Of Rumi About Life

Rumi was a Turkish Persian and Muslim scholar. He was famous for his most passionate and motivational poems. He was born at 1207 and passed away at 1273. He had several names but his real name was Jalaluddin Muhammad Balkhi.

Here are some of his most inspiring words


”The wound is the place where the Light enters you.”

Motivational

”Stop acting so small. You are the universe in ecstatic motion.”

Life


“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” 

Positive


“What you seek is seeking you.” 

Amazing


“If you are irritated by every rub, how will your mirror be polished?” 

Get yourself free


“You were born with wings, why prefer to crawl through life?”

Working hard

It’s never been too late

It was never late to do anything before, now and in the future. The fact that I am living till now means that I still have unfinished business in this life. It also means that hope is still by my side. So many dreams are yet to come true and for sure so many precious people are yet to be in my life.
How about you? Have you thought before that there are so many doors in front of you but it is not the time to be opened yet? Well, you must have similar thoughts too. Sometimes it feel like I am inside a game and I have to unlock so many levels to reach a new stage of playing. Throughout playing, I get bored, frustrated or unhappy that I hit the pause button for a while. However, I cannot stop playing because I know there is a treasure island on a certain stage that I need to reach and I am not ready at all to lose all the progress I have made so far.


We don’t know that much


We focus on age and time in a very negative way. We overlook the fact that age is only numbers and time is the beautiful memories and the success we gain while living. We give extreme consideration to the societal vision of our life. We judge ourselves harshly for the trivial mistakes or even the big ones we do because of weakness or due to lack of knowledge or experience that we break our own hearts. We belittle our major efforts exerted on matters that haven’t given us the desired outcomes ignoring the fact that we did what we could do at our circumstances then.
We tend to hide our emotions until we somehow lose the chance to express them. We love people and we take them for granted that we ignore their feelings until they become forced to leave our side.And after that, we get filled with regrets again. We watch our journey from one side of the mirror. we don’t look at it as a whole chart which has its ups and downs and for that, we give up earlier that it should be.
Sometimes, we overestimate the quality of our thoughts and decisions and ignore the fact that we know very little that we almost know nothing. God only knows everything. We need to do our best and be hopeful without limiting our beliefs to the narrow foresight of ours. There are always non expected results, mysterious facts and myths of the universe we know nothing about.


Take me back ten years ago

I want a time machine to go back ten years ago. I want to correct a certain decision. I need to seek forgiveness from someone who is not here anymore. I have to tell myself that it wasn’t late back then. There are so many things I wish to do if I get the chance to go back.
Shall I tell you a secret? I can do it! Yes, I can. It’s not impossible, it is just different from what I think. Because right now I am ten years earlier of my future. I still have people I will lose and become a part of my memory and things that will disappear and never be back again. What else! On that future, I will look at the mirror and find someone else, someone who is weak, tired and displeased and full of regrets or I may find someone who is shining brightly, full of joy and optimism and ready to embrace the whole world. It all depends on the time machine I am riding right now. I am now living the present which will be once a past after ten years.
The people who left and the past we regret are not coming into our life again but there are descendants of them with us right now. We can pray for those who left and treasure the ones who are still remaining.
Are you convinced now? So, tell me what is your plan? What are you going to do about those people who will leave and the life of yours that’s going to be ten years older one day and the moments of your life that will be very old soon. You know what! This paragraph is coming to an end now. It’s almost in the past. It’s that fast, one minute is going away to leave a space for the next one to be born.


Shall I tell you one thing about our life?

Life is now within you! Everyday holds miracles that may lead to unexpected yet awesome turn of events. You can turn them into your side with effort and determination. What is left for you is to act, drop the negative thoughts and stay away from toxic people. And the most important thing is to believe in yourself..

Life is hard and complicated, yet beautiful and lovely. We are still part of this adorable mess so that we can learn and change, face the challenges and gather our strength again.
Every day holds a new chance for change. And don’t forget that It will never be late to start all over again at any time whether you are twenty or ninety. You will go through new roads that will reward you with worthy destinations. It will always be better than giving up.