A message from a friend. Give me your opinions!

message from a friend

Everyone else is doing his best to achieve something. Persons around me have great goals, plans, and dreams to achieve. What I am doing in my life, I keep thinking till no response! I am eating, sleeping and going to a job I don't even know what I am going to do with but getting me a few pounds to support my actions of eating and sleeping. I feel bad about myself and the dear persons I have to take care of. I feel inferior to the people around me. I am not strong-minded or goal-oriented like them actually. well, I don't even have a dream.

You know me and somehow you know how I am thinking about my life and my problems. I don't give up easily but at the same time, I don't achieve so much progress. I am not satisfied with my actions or my way of thinking. Life is going fast and I am still at the same place. I have the energy to do many things but I don't go any step forward. You know how fast my plans get destroyed and you have already told me many times that I should think more rationale and don't hasten my actions.

I am very ordinary when it comes to character and skills and maybe less than ordinary. I am not trying to be a loser but unfortunately, I am a one. I tried to change my life and exerted efforts in applying for other jobs but never got a better one. I tried to read more to find something special to follow but I didn't feel the determination or the urge to do one different thing.

What to do? Tell me some plan I can follow or a focus point to start from in order to change my life! Someone tells me how to become stronger to face life and make a successful career like the others? I am not weak or a negative person, but I really cannot find a way out. I just need words that can help me organize my thoughts! Can you do me that favor?

Actually, that was a message from a friend of mine to me, a friend who is really good and was very brilliant to make good decisions about everything before, but maybe the stressful life can change people easily and shake them for a while!

I wanted to share with people from different communities and read how they can respond to such a request. I hope you can give me a piece of your mind so that I can gather more thoughts to help that friend. Thank you!


A content writer and a pharmacist. I find my motivation in inspiring people. I write about the good vibes of life, motivation, and self-improvement.

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  1. Nesrine says:

    You must know what are your needs of life to decide how to enjoy it
    You need to practice you hobbies more .
    Sport change the mood perfectly and makes your mind clear from stress and helps you to think and find new ideas .

    1. Chaymaa says:

      Thanks for your comment!
      Yes you are right, hobbies and sports change the mood and recharge the soul too. I got new ideas thanks to you!

  2. MonMona says:

    Inspiring quotes

  3. Keep inspiring those around you!

    1. Yes Sure!!

  4. Hi…well, I guess it’s not too late to share my thoughts on this…right😊?
    Umm… People think that it’s quite difficult to make change in life… but change only requires one mere action…(to make a decision)…if you wanna change the way you live…just wake up one day and make a decision to change your life to what you desire….
    remember,every day in hand is like a new opportunity…a clean slate! a new beginning to do things in a way that defines the real you!!!

    1. Sure, it’s not late because someone else may need these words!
      You are right! I like this part about making decisions. One decision can change someone’s life! Whether it is right or wrong, it’s healthy to keep planning and deciding until we get the best results.

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