Everyone else is doing his best to achieve something. Persons around me have great goals, plans, and dreams to achieve. What I am doing in my life, I keep thinking till no response! I am eating, sleeping and going to a job I don't even know what I am going to do with but getting me a few pounds to support my actions of eating and sleeping. I feel bad about myself and the dear persons I have to take care of. I feel inferior to the people around me. I am not strong-minded or goal-oriented like them actually. well, I don't even have a dream.
You know me and somehow you know how I am thinking about my life and my problems. I don't give up easily but at the same time, I don't achieve so much progress. I am not satisfied with my actions or my way of thinking. Life is going fast and I am still at the same place. I have the energy to do many things but I don't go any step forward. You know how fast my plans get destroyed and you have already told me many times that I should think more rationale and don't hasten my actions.
I am very ordinary when it comes to character and skills and maybe less than ordinary. I am not trying to be a loser but unfortunately, I am a one. I tried to change my life and exerted efforts in applying for other jobs but never got a better one. I tried to read more to find something special to follow but I didn't feel the determination or the urge to do one different thing.
What to do? Tell me some plan I can follow or a focus point to start from in order to change my life! Someone tells me how to become stronger to face life and make a successful career like the others? I am not weak or a negative person, but I really cannot find a way out. I just need words that can help me organize my thoughts! Can you do me that favor?
Actually, that was a message from a friend of mine to me, a friend who is really good and was very brilliant to make good decisions about everything before, but maybe the stressful life can change people easily and shake them for a while!
I wanted to share with people from different communities and read how they can respond to such a request. I hope you can give me a piece of your mind so that I can gather more thoughts to help that friend. Thank you!